Which side ear piercing is gay

But it hasn't disappeared entirely -- you can find plenty of forum posts online from men asking which is the gay ear before getting a piercing! The "gay earring" wasn't the only thing used for signaling that one was gay, although it's probably the most famous one.

Robbie (Normal) on X (Twitter) captures a contemporary view by asserting, “either ear is the gay ear if you're gay.” It’s significant because it emphasizes how ear piercings related to sexual orientation are outdated and irrelevant–a sign that societal norms are shifting away from traditional views.