Gay men over thirty

It could be a feeling, a change in perspective, a major life development, or even a small new habit, but what did you not anticipate as a gay man older than 30? 31 here. For me it’s been a few things: more confidence & self-assurance. not perfect, but less insecure than in my 20s. I used to FOMO so hard in my twenties.
When you date or have sex over 40, you face many stereotypes from partners about longevity in the bedroom and physical dexterity. Dexterity could be as simple my ability to put my thighs to my.